14 January 2017

Being proud of myself


There are two things I do at the start of a new year.

One is a Lifehacker review of my previous year. I actually can't find the original article but the questions I answer every year are:

  • What went well
  • What accomplishments did I have?
  • How did I improve my life?
  • How did I improve my relationships?
  • What did I remove from my life that is now making me happier?
  • What do I wish I had taken more time for?

My reviews have their own folder in my Google Drive

The second thing I do (or have done for the past couple of years) is a Buzzfeed Memory Jar.

I've actually been feeling very down about the past few months. On top of wedding related stress I'm leaving BrexitCentral at the end of the month - which was planned from the start but I think it's going to be my last job in Westminster and that's left me feeling very conflicted. So today, when I finally felt like I could sit down and do my review of last year I opened up my memory jar and started unfolding the little bits of paper that I'd kept for a whole year.

And it made me very happy.

Sometimes I've written the same achievement twice because it made me so happy. Sometimes I achieved very small things that while being small made me feel accomplished at the time. Last year I wrote down the important ones in my review document and then burned them. This time I feel so overwhelmed - I started today feeling tired already and avoiding my year review because I wasn't sure what to put - I'm going to document them all here exactly as I wrote them before burning them. (Fiancé. If you're reading this I'm sorry in advance. I know that this is what you're supposed to use the shredder for.)

So, in categories but no particular order within those:

Life:

  • Stopped Grandma running a red light (18/02/16)
  • Got my Day Skipper Licence! (12/02/16)
  • Got my Day Skipper Licence! Not Comp Crew! <3 li="">
  • Lay my hands flat on the floor after Yoga!
  • Got free pizza from the lovely people @ Papa Johns! (24/11)
  • Cleaned the washing machine filter
  • Went to see "Your Name" - cried a lot (24/11)
  • Unblocked bathroom sink

Social / Courage:

  • Darren said I was a very social person
  • Called Yoko and had a kinda conversation in Japanese (08/12)
  • I asked the couple to move during the last act of the Cursed Child as I couldn't see the stage properly - and they did! (16/09/16)
  • Told JI I didn't want to work at BC long term (17/08)

Work:

  • My licence fee lines document was deemed super helpful by Dia and Alex. John said they should be a permanent reactive work feature (13/05/16)
  • JI says my social media presentation work is first class work (11/03/16)
  • Jonathan said I get shit done (01/12)
  • John approved me working with the interns and thought my prep work was awesome. Kate thought it was helpful too! (14/05/16)
  • My volunteer planning guide is AWESOME (Says KG) (13/05)
  • Correctly moved our WP hosting (25/11)
  • Worked really hard on the Steel Briefing in terms of organising so Alex was freed up to write. Also updated social media & website v. soon after publishing (01/04)
  • JO and AW both like my adaption of JSJs research note template. It both looks good and is workable for everyone! (27/04/16)
  • Built a clean version of Your TPA within 30 mins after realising there were some errors on my Saturday build. (22/08)
  • FINISHED TPA APP!
So - even if I didn't manage to achieve one important thing a day, or one important thing a week, I feel pretty proud of myself right now. I'm going to go and write my review.


Source: ZeroChan